You have the tendency be overly sensitive. You give other people so much power to hurt you. When the did or said something that you deem to be offensive, you are quick to take it personally.
This is not the kind of person you want to be.
You take yourself too seriously. And more often than not,you indulge yourself in a vicious cycle of over thinking and self pity. Please be aware that this is a very weak and detrimental trait. If you want to be a better person, you should learn how to distance yourself from this propensity.
My dearest friend, know that other people cannot hurt you. Only you can hurt yourself. External factors,such as other people’s actions and words, cannot hurt you. But how you relate and interpret these encounters can.
On Being Stoic 